Thursday, October 13, 2016

Alpha Mail: it won't happen to me!

The great challenge in convincing young women that feminism is a destructive lie is their solipsism:
So the last girl I fooled around with, prior to getting remarried, had a notch count of 12 ( so she said).. She had spent her twenties living in a big metropolitan city and then traveling the world. So I multiplied it by 2 making it closer to 24. Anyway she was a cute girl, 34, and desperately wanted to get married. Red-pill me knew she was cute enough for pump/dump but not commitment. Anyway fast forward 5 years and I'm in the grocery store and look over at this young woman and think to myself "shit, that chick looks like she's one step away from being a mentally ill bag lady"

I then do a double-take and recognize her as my old fling. Went over, shot the breeze, and came to the realization that she literally had gone over the edge and become bat shit insane. The lies of feminism, unattached sex, and her age - all had collided and created a human train wreck.
How to conquer this self-destructive solipsism? I don't know, but I suspect the answer lies in convincing girls that they have agency. I suspect it lies in teaching them that their actions have consequences, that their decisions matter, and that things don't ever "just happen" for no reason.

Far too many women float through their 20s on their youthful beauty and their emotions, never grasping that they will soon be the lonely, crazy-eyed, thin-haired, over-painted 30-something they now regard with contempt if they don't decide upon one man and make a life with him.

There is nothing women ruin with such predictability as their own lives.

30 comments:

Keyser Soze said...

I see crazy bat shit insane women everywhere!

Also you see a lot of cat women....

Sad, so sad.

modsquad said...

I think we can drop the notion of multiplying a woman's notch count by two or three. Add a zero to whatever she admits to and you'll be far closer to the truth.

Escoffier said...

I'm sorry but the idea that the solution is to 'convince girls' to stop destroying their lives strikes me as the worst sort of fantasy. You either impose decency and restraint upon women or reap the whirlwind. There is no in between.

praetorian said...

How to conquer this self-destructive solipsism? I don't know, but I suspect the answer lies in convincing girls that they have agency.

> reasoning w/ women
> w/ 20 yo women

It will take strong fathers and, yes, alphas foregoing wrecking the pussy and psyche of mid-tier women.

Neither seems likely.

So it will take civilizational collapse.

U PC BRO? said...

The only thing I know for certain about this woman is she will be voting for Hillary.

Bike Bubba said...

Call me weird, but I'm skeptical of taking the testimony of an admitted philanderer on what's happened with his paramours. Plus, he's more or less admitting he has a 1/N part in her destruction, and admits that a woman's mental and even physical health is, in a way, inversely proportional to the number of penises that have been in her vagina. Maybe some sorrow and repentance would be appropriate here?

And, for what it's worth, maybe the mental and physical health of a man depends on how many vaginas his penis has explored. To be blunt about the matter, I don't know of very many "man-sluts" in great jobs, except for Democratic politicians that get a pass from the media. There's something going on there.

VFM #7634 said...

"Far too many women float through their 20s on their youthful beauty and their emotions, never grasping that they will soon be the lonely, crazy-eyed, thin-haired, over-painted 30-something they now regard with contempt if they don't decide upon one man and make a life with him."

If you think about it, human women don't really last much longer than Ocampas. They just have a much longer time spent as children and grannies.

liberranter said...

I'm sorry but the idea that the solution is to 'convince girls' to stop destroying their lives strikes me as the worst sort of fantasy.

You either impose decency and restraint upon women or reap the whirlwind. There is no in between.


Heartily seconded. No woman --especially one in her teens and twenties-- is EVER going to acknowledge her own agency or admit to the possibilty of adverse consequences for her behavior, let alone take steps toward doing the right thing. Only a hard, dictatorial patriarchy (Wahhabi Islam might just be onto something here) will have any chance at all of preventing these children-in-adult-bodies from self-destruction. Little girl-children cannot and will not do it on their own. The "wiring" just isn't there.

Matamoros said...

Trump can begin the process, perhaps even confect it. Hitler was successful in Germany in sending women back to their homes to work, until wartime exigencies interfered.

So it is entirely possible that with a strong President who utilizes societal pressure that women will adapt to "Children, Church, Cooking".

Verne said...

Your last sentence says it all. That is the reason I have always cried for woman over what they do. I do do not hate feminists, I pity them. I have seen them tear up families, but us men we recover. It's the woman who are killing themselves. The girls I see make me sad for them. Most of the guys suffer but heal. The strong ones anyway. There are no woman strong enough to handles what they do to themselves.

I can never do anything but love woman. That is just the way I am. I'm to educated to the world to ever let them take me with them. But I can't hate them. They hurt themselves more than anything else

Feather Blade said...

Liberranter - try hanging out with a better class of women.

liberranter said...

Feather Blade said ...

Liberranter - try hanging out with a better class of women


ROTFLMFAO

Famous last words of a future divorce lawyer client who will be one quarter as wealthy as be used to be.

ChickenChicken Sweep said...

"teaching them that their actions have consequences"

A simple sentence describing a Herculean task. If they just ignored all consequences, that's one thing. But young women, and many other humans, have stronger tendencies towards ascribing successes to their own actions and failures to "things beyond their control".

These sort of half-truths are more difficult to deal with even willful ignorance, as these folks see themselves as smart, but they're just smart enough to be actively stupid.

Amy said...

Putting out is a way of getting attention. Girls think they'll change that one "right" guy if she sleeps with him. Magic pussy, and all.

This is wrapped up in corrupting entertainment culture too. How do hot girls act on tv, in movies, as the subject of songs sung by the kind of guys girls wish they could get? In their minds, attraction is conflated with sex acts. The notion that one precedes the other is lost or misunderstood. Most girls/women are caught up in soap operatic fantasies to be able to tell a quality man apart from a cad...after all, in all those shows and movies and songs, the woman tames the beast. In some soaps, the woman tames her rapist and marries him.

It works on tv, why not for me? So they have lots of sex hoping they've finally got the right bait and a willing fish. Nothing anyone said above is false. Steeping women in trash culture doesn't help matters one bit, though.

Laguna Beach Fogey said...

Problem is, there's usually a thirsty beta-boy waiting in the wings to catch them when they fall and wife them up.

camillacameo said...

Feminist promiscuity has not only ruined the lives of women who practice it, but many other women too. My sisters and I are all anti-feminist, marriage-and-babies-desiring virgins, but it seems we're going to end up as old maids because feminism destroyed the courtship system and trust between the sexes.

Unknown said...

``... it seems we're going to end up as old maids because feminism destroyed the courtship system and trust between the sexes.''

What sort of church are you in?

grendel said...

Camilla, Christian virgin men are still out there. Don't give up. But, I've seen so many Christian Homeschool type girls that spend all their time at home or with their girl friends or in their tiny conservative church. You may need to expand your search area. Also, nice Christian virgins tend to dress weird and have makeup problems. Also to be unwilling to date outside their own very specific denomination. If all else fails do a year at a Christian college or Bible School.

you hate me said...

Camilla,

I have a christian engineer blonde hair blue eyed friend waiting for girls like you....unfortunately he lives in MD near DC hell hole

Mountain Man said...

"The only thing I know for certain about this woman is she will be voting for Hillary."

...without a doubt... without a doubt.
The whole time we hung out I would ,with ZFG ridicule and make fun of all of her liberal ideas. It would only make the lust in her eyes burn hotter.

dc.sunsets said...

Two of my sons (an engineer and a computer scientist, both with fantastic jobs & IQ's >140) found wives on eHarmony. You really have to cast a wide net nowadays.

Mr.MantraMan said...

Let feminists fight Muslims

hank.jim said...

"feminism destroyed the courtship system and trust between the sexes."

Take it from the guy on his second marriage, the courtship system never really made any sense. Marriage is a business arrangement. There's nothing romantic. Women should not wait for a proposal. Marriage must be discussed as a possibility after the third date. If the relationship is worth pursuing, be exclusive for a year, then decide on marriage upon one year of the relationship. No exceptions. If he or you say no, break up. Try again with someone else. Don't waste anytime.

As for trust, women ask for divorce at more than 60% of breakups. Thus, women's commitment is the wild card. If you desire trust in a relationship, you must make it happen.

chris said...

It is natural selection at work. Those open to (((feminist))) brainwashing/socialization will be removed from the gene pool.

bob k. mando ( Grab 'Em By The Pussy And Their Hearts And Minds Will Follow ) said...

VD
There is nothing women ruin with such predictability as their own lives.



which plays back into the comment you made about women being ruled by fear the other day.

the only problem being, women all too often fixate upon the thing which terrifies them ... and then relentlessly make choices which insure that the possibility which terrifies them is almost certain to eventuate.

in certain ways, this is like the skiing/piloting/surfing/racing advice ... look where you WANT TO GO, not at the threat. your natural reflexes direct you *towards* the thing upon which you are focusing your attention. if you target fixate on the threat ... you're probably going to land on the threat.

how you convince a young woman, in the invulnerability of her bloom of youth to both pay attention to the possible outcome AND steer away from it, i don't know.

she is in possession of the one magical, shiny vajajay, you know?

residentMoron said...

bob

There's an old line: "The fear of the wicked has come upon them"

The context strongly suggests, as you do, that there's an inherent connection between the fear and the event.

Maybe that's why the scriptures are so insistent that men should fear only God?

JP said...

While the real men are busy fighting wars and making money, the pretty chicks are fucking the pool boys and the tattooed psychopaths. It's probably no coincidence that faggotry ran rampant about 18 years after the start of WW2. Because that's just long enough for the draft-dodgers' children to start coming of age.

And the same sort of thing can be seen on campuses.

dc.sunsets said...

@ Hank J, take it from a guy married 34 years to the same 1st wife, the courtship system did work, long ago, for some of us.

You are right, however. My oldest son's wife reportedly did what you suggest; if after a couple dates it didn't look like the young man was who she could imagine marrying, she moved on. At the risk of speculating about a subject that is none of my business, I suspect she had an N of 0 when she began to date my son.

She's a bright, very sweet girl with a biting, dry sense of humor and is proving to be an excellent wife and mother but she isn't a beauty queen. Possibly her okay-but-not-striking looks protected her from the otherwise corrupting influence of male orbit.

This in part is why I sadly shake my head at men obsessed with "hotness" especially if their target age group is >17.

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Remo - Vile Faceless Minion #99 said...

"How to conquer this self-destructive solipsism? I don't know, but I suspect the answer lies in convincing girls that they have agency. I suspect it lies in teaching them that their actions have consequences, that their decisions matter, and that things don't ever "just happen" for no reason."

Women left to their own devices and lacking societal restraint will always turn into whores. Women are children at and trying to convince them to avoid doing this with stories uncoupled from actual real in your face restraint will fail. How about a virginity test day before the wedding - if she fails it then there is *no support or goodies at all* in the event of a divorce with the children, house, monies, etc. all 100% belonging to the male. Affairs should be punished similarly. That would give the kind of incentive that a woman understands.

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