It's hard to argue with the writer's conclusion, which is that it is no wonder
the average guy thinks Game is a scam. But the salient point here isn't that tubby little Douchey McDoucherson has any idea what he's talking about, it is that if you have a conventional church-and-media-and-school-instilled idea of women and what they find attractive, even Douchey McDoucherson has a more advanced understanding of the opposite sex than you. That's why he's getting better results than you do, not because women are all secretly slavering for the Lesser Potbellied Love Machine.
Even a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. But don't make the mistake of believing that because Douchey McDoucherson is a few steps ahead of you, he has therefore reached the ultimate destination. When considering the advice of any PUA or theoretician of Game, the first thing you should keep in mind is if their objectives are in line with your own. A mismatch doesn't mean that they are necessarily wrong, but it does make you unlikely to reach your own goals by following their advice.
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"When considering the advice of any PUA or theoretician of Game, the first thing you should keep in mind is if their objectives are in line with your own. A mismatch doesn't mean that they are necessarily wrong, but it does make you unlikely to reach your own goals by following their advice."
This is a fantastic point.
Why does this guy look like most of the "Pastors" at "Christian" Churches now? I swear, if I see one more frosted tip pimp in the pulpit I am going to scream.
I guess this is what you mean by "peacocking"?
You don't have to do all this is you are good looking guy. Old t-shirt, some jeans and some scruff works if you are hot. Just like a hot girl looks hot without fake nails, fake hair, fake boobs, fake eye lashes etc.
If I was dating and saw this guy I would RUN in the other direction. He is compensating big time. Just like that idiot who wears the gogles on his head and eyeliner. FREAKS!
I have read some of the manosphere and some of them just don't get that a women of quality wants a man of quality...and we have certain things we tick off the list for that.
Just like a man of quality wants a women of quality, with a very different list.
Frosting your hair and wearing pants that don't cover your gut isn't going to do it.
YIKES. The American Male is as horrendous as the American Female.
Give me the days of John Wayne!
Carlotta
Carlotta, but then any girl that would permit a man to kiss her before they were formally engaged would be a trollop!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgskVR0OV6M
What a try-hard. I refer to those guys as "Poochie".
See: http://simpsons.wikia.com/wiki/Poochie
Is he trying to pick up THAT girl?
He had her at "hello".
I thought Elton John was doing motivational speeches for a second...
Carlotta,
Those pastors annoy me more than the Preachers Taking Loot channel, I mean "Praise The Lord" channel.
It makes me wonder how much this tool charges for his PUA charade.
I have an idea for a really useful post -- which should really be a static page on your site.
Make a list of "conventional church-and-media-and-school-instilled ideas of women" and compare it with reality.
As times goes on, you could add links to studies demonstrating the "reality" side of the ledger.
Crowhill
I've had people ask me, when I talk about game and about women's nature, something like: "Would you tell men to treat your daughters this way?" They usually follow it up with a comment like "THAT should put your sexist thinking in perspective for you."
I see where they think the question is a knockout blow. But it isn't. It is completely irrelevant. Fact is, a man cannot teach other men how to treat his daughters. Or anyone else. It is women that teach men how to treat women.
A man could teach 1,000 men to treat his daughter like a princess. Yet, if her attractions and responses were typical, that would just be 1,000 more men who would be invisible to her in favor of aloof bastards. Douchey McDourcherson would get a better response.
Rather, I'll attempt to teach my daughters that if they genuinely want a good man, and not just pay lip service to it as most do, they need to respond to good men. Whether or not they listen will be on them. And I'll have television, print, other women, hollywood, the current or future incarnations of twilight, working against me.
Sexual market value is exactly what it says... it is a market. Women have demands, and they chose from the supply of men accordingly.
Fathers, pastors, etc., are trying to supply the market with a product that women simply don't want. We could make 80% of men the kind of men fathers would pick for their daughters, or we could make it 99%, and the only thing that would change would be the degree. We'd just end up with 20% of men being pursued, or 1% of men being pursued.
Working on the supply side while ignoring the demand side of the market only makes things worse, and has for an entire generation.
Trust raises a good point. It's what Susan Walsh has been working on.
Getting women to grow up.
That post had interesting comments about whether that girl was even worth gaming or not. As far as I read, she was not.
"Why does this guy look like most of the "Pastors" at "Christian" Churches now? I swear, if I see one more frosted tip pimp in the pulpit I am going to scream."
I'm going to agree with Carlotta here. My first thought on seeing him before reading the sign was "Oh look, another 'I'm so cool, you can relate to me' pastor".
Indy Guy, I don't think that is such a bad idea and I doubt any future son in law is going to get much more then that since we are not allowing our children to "date" in a traditional fashion :)
Ghost, Elton John indeed. I just spit out my coffee!
You know I didn't even notice the girl? Seriously, you would figure the guy could PAY a hot chick to show up and pretend he picked her up. I would think that would be a better investment of his money then ANYTHING he has on.
Carlotta
I wonder if Pulpit Pimps aren't simply running "Game" on people?
Interesting topic to ponder....
I would love to see Vox do a frame by frame breakdown of maybe Joel Ostein vs say Eddie Long LOL.
Carlotta
Pulpit pimps. Love it.
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