Monday, April 24, 2017

The risk of working with women

As everything from the allegations made against Bill O'Reilly and Sean Hannity to the prosecution of an innocent British geography teacher tends to indicate, men are well-advised to professionally steer well clear of women and girls:
A geography teacher cleared of raping a pupil has warned that men should steer clear of the profession, after a false allegation shattered his dream career.

Kato Harris, a former head of department at an all-girls school in London, was accused of attacking a 14-year-old three times in a classroom during lunch breaks in autumn 2013, but was found not guilty after a trial last year.

The 38-year-old said before his ordeal began, "life was like a wonderful dream", and with a successful career and a child also on the way he was "looking forward to a great future".

In an interview with the Mail on Sunday, he has disclosed that "one of the biggest challenges" he now faces is forgiving his accuser, something he said he will do, "just not now". He told the newspaper: "I would certainly advocate that no man qualify as a teacher. It is just not worth it. What is the lesson here? There is nothing to protect the male teacher."

A jury found Mr Harris, from Richmond, not guilty of all charges following his trial at Isleworth Crown Court.
When people can tie up two years of your time or end a decades-long career with nothing more than a dubious accusation, you had better keep well away from them. They can talk up "women in science" or whatever all they like, but a man would have to be utterly insane to mentor any woman who isn't directly related to him.

28 comments:

moriyah said...

I would absolutely agree with the statement 'a man would have to be utterly insane to mentor any woman who isn't directly related to him.' However, you should make the offer to any woman you are interested in AFTER you deduce she is interested in you also AND is able to submit. Otherwise you will have no proven methodology for dealing with half our species.

John Doe said...

"his local Anglican church turned him away simply because he was awaiting trial. He says a priest told him: ‘We’ve had a meeting and we’ve decided you’re not permitted on the premises.’"

Meanwhile, the Anglicans support flooding England with hordes of blacks and browns who actually do commit rape on a regular basis.

Yet another institution whose members will have a meeting with the hangman's noose once this whole rotten system finally collapses.

Aeoli Pera said...

Outside highly religious gals and what's necessary for reproduction, men are learning to just ignore women. They'll break before we do because loneliness is their greatest fear, whereas dishonor and shame is ours.

Dexter said...

Forgive her? What a clown. Maybe after she has asked for forgiveness, showed genuine contrition, and been punished for her false accusation.

ar10308 said...

The fact she gets to keep her anonymity while his life is destroyed is horrific. This sounds like a job for /pol/ to collect this nasty little cunt's scalp.

Midnight Avenue J said...

And so I continue to wrestle with the concept of forgiveness. She ruined him, forever as far as human memory is concerned. Unjust ruin is difficult to forgive, and subjugation only carries you so far.

Kallmunz said...

I know someone who became a MGTOW and therefore somewhat paranoid however it paid off for him, he had to console a female staff member, sure enough she accused him of wrongdoing. What she didn't know until later that he carried...https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0196JOKII/ref=ox_sc_sfl_title_2?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=A18L1L15GEG9M9

Cheap insurance.

Michael said...

@Midnight Avenue J said...

"Unjust ruin is difficult to forgive"

Indeed. But the reason to forgive has nothing to do with her repentance or anything to do with her at all. It has to do with your own ability to not spend life walking around with bottled-up anger. Sometimes you forgive for "selfish" reasons not altruistic ones. DAMHIK.

There is also Matthew 18:23-35

DeploraBard said...

So bad in army that I asked to run a video recorder in office. Of course I was told no. Private body cam might work. I retire in a year and no longer care. I simply don't interact with them at all.

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Nate73 said...

Kallmunz: Any recommendations for good audio-recording android apps? They tend to stop working sometimes when the screen is locked.

I think what went on here is obvious, this girl either wanted attention, or else did have some kind of attraction/relationship with the teacher. Then when something happened that displeased her she cried rape (maybe he didn't want to run away with her to Fiji or something). Think about the previous post where a British producer tried to setup an all-female TV company and how quickly it degenerated into chaos. An all-girl classroom is no different, with constant status seeking and jockeying for who is top girl, and what better way to lord it over your classmates than to have the teacher as a pet?

dc.sunsets said...

It's a minefield, and seems unlikely to change until false accusations land one in a wood chipper, or tied to a kindling-surrounded stake with "witch" written on her forehead.

Ask Haven Monihan. You don't even have to be REAL in order to be dragged into some bat-guano crazy girl's dramatic arts. When my sons were in H.S. and I had some dealings with people there, it wasn't uncommon to find adult male teachers who seemed to be happy and flattered by attention from 17 year old girls, and a fair number of those girls were telling their peers stories about engaging in sexual activities that I thought largely confined to the realm of fiction.

Clinical insanity in all directions.

Bob said...

Problem is, the teaching profession is already female dominated. What happens when ONLY women are teaching our young boys?

Michael said...

@Nate73 said...

"Any recommendations for good audio-recording android apps? They tend to stop working sometimes when the screen is locked."

I've had good luck with:
ASR - for recording microphone audio
ACR - for recording calls

jakeseliger.com said...

Interesting to read this, because in 2014 I wrote "Why don’t more men go into teaching? Fear of The Accusation." Evidently not much has changed since.

Whisker biscuit said...

Just did some work with several local schools in my area. Out of 6 schools, I counted 4 males. I can't imagine the vultures' nests those schools are.

manuel hernandez said...

The only reason to teach in schools is to either teach shop classes or to coach sports. And as soon as schools start pushing gender equality in these areas, then might as well bail out and teach on the community college or trade school level.

Michael Maier said...

Debbie Schlussel is looking rough. Wall hit.

liberranter said...

Kato Harris, a former head of department at an all-girls school in London,

Seriously? Dude, that's just BEGGING for trouble. Anyone "smart" enough to be a teacher really ought to know better.

liberranter said...

Interesting to read this, because in 2014 I wrote "Why don’t more men go into teaching? Fear of The Accusation."

Also, men tend to be doers rather than teachers.

VFM #7634 said...

Yeah, it's a minefield, but I've noticed various signals.

Of course, there are the problems that Gammas and Omegas tend to run into: being labelled "creepy". This is especially so if they're interested in a woman and don't know when to back off, but Omegas can run into trouble just by being in the general area.

For other men, "Hell hath no fury" is definitely a phenomenon. Women get really pissed off at a man if they're attracted to him but he rejects them. And they're very sensitive to rejection. They tend to be forgiving if the man is known to be getting the interest of considerably hotter women. But if he is NOT... look out.

They also are forgiving if they reject him and he then backs off. But that's because, in the woman's mind, backing off is NOT the same thing as rejecting her. Frequently enough, they start showing interest again.

If he's a gratuitous a**hole like Bill O'Reilly, that can cause accusations as well. (I can't quite tell what rank O'Reilly is, unfortunately. Either Delta, or a Gamma that has an advantage through being famous.)

@Michael Maier

Hannity stood his ground. Schlussel backed off, denying he sexually harassed her, but still hit him with the "creepy" label.

Gee, it's almost as if Hannity read SJWAL.

(Hannity is, I'm guessing, a Delta.)

Rex Little said...

Either things were different 30 years ago or I just was lucky. At that time I was in the middle of the best relationship I've ever had, with a woman at my company I'd been mentoring (we were both engineers). There were quite a few couples who got together while working at that company, and no one was ever accused of anything.

Mr.MantraMan said...

I'm so lucky for never having to work with women and what women have been near me in the work environment I studiously ignore outside of minimal professional courtesy.

As an aside since women ruin everything maybe they should be turned upon the men of the left.

Mary MacArthur said...

Bob,

Homeschool or die.

Ceasar said...

I have started working remotely more often, office only 10 min away, due to not wanting to deal with this. My boss thinks I am crazy due to all the hot new young girls being hired in our building. Unfortunately, my boss and colleagues have not had the pleasure of working around a lot of women and don't understand the risks. Our parent company is forcing integration and that includes placing their people (70% women) into common functional areas. They will learn...the hard way.

liberranter said...

[M]en are well-advised to professionally steer well clear of women and girls

To echo what others here have said: "if only that were possible."

Unless you're in a blue-collar trade or are a one-man consulting operation, "c***trification" of your workplace is unavoidable and inevitable. The only thing you can do to try to protect yourself, as others here have pointed out, is to be as anti-social as possible, communicating only when absolutely necessary and ALWAYS with witnesses present.

Richard P said...

The only option he has is to sue everyone involved

Jed Mask said...

... Really boils down to women not having ANY PART of "position" or "influence" in the "domains of men" in life from work, military, education, etc.

Women should remain at the home and kitchen as the Good Book says they should remain. Amen.

~ Bro. Jed

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