Thursday, October 20, 2016

A belated surrender

Women interpret criticism as "hate" and "abuse". This is why it is important to keep constantly hammering at the feminists and SJWs. They can't take criticism. They can't take the heat. It kills them inside. Sooner or later, they will quit and sink back into the bitter solipsism that spawned their attack on reality:
All of that shit right there is why writing this blog feels like pissing into the wind. Because for the abusers, there are no negative consequences. They’re able to leverage the controversy generated by my existence into increased sales and awards, while for me the consequences are always negative. There is only ever a progressive, steady toll on my health, sanity, and relationships. I might succeed in changing things behind the scenes at a few gaming companies, or at affecting the lineup of speakers at a single convention, or seeing harassment policies implemented at a handful of conventions and events. But none of that does anything to change the daily lived reality of what it means to be a woman in games.

People have told me more times than I can count that I’m “brave” for writing this blog. I’m “brave” for being open about my feelings and experiences, and I’m “brave” for saying what I think without apologizing or minimizing in any way. And to them, I always say the same thing: I’m not brave! I’m stupid. Doing what I do is like beating my head against a brick wall on a daily basis. Every once in a while, I might knock a tiny chip off the wall, and people may applaud and say, “look! Progress!”. But ultimately, nothing I do is every going to seriously harm the wall, but it will seriously harm me if I keep at it long enough....

I hate feeling that I’m playing into a generational story of defeat. My mother was run out of STEM because of sexism, ruining a career as a brilliant research chemist. She has her name on 12 patents! And the fact that I couldn’t persevere makes me feel hopeless. How can I tell my daughter that she can achieve anything of meaning when I have only stories of defeat to offer her? How can I tell her that she can beat the odds when her mother and her grandmother are both strong women who have been ground down into silence?
This woman is both stupid and part of a multi-generational losing tradition. Her daughter can't beat the odds because there is nothing to win. Life is struggle. Respect must be earned, it is never granted to whiners and complainers and those who others men into doing their work for them.

She has the complete opposite of the MAGA Mindset. It is not surprising, because women like this don't have the good sense to stop trying to change things for the worse, America is considerably less great than it was. It's good that she finally surrendered. She shouldn't have tried to fight reality in the first place. The cruel fact is that the world would have been a better place if her campaign and her blog had never existed.

Women will use any tool to try to shame men into not fighting, they will appeal to any authority to forcibly silencing men by threatening their jobs, their freedom, and their families for nothing more than the crime of voicing an opinion. Because they simply cannot take the heat in a world of free expression.

So, turn it up on them. Until they can accept the principle of free speech means everyone has exactly the same right to criticize them that they have to criticize everyone else, one side or the other is going to be silenced. And it isn't going to be us. We don't quit. Ever.

Observe that what proved to be effective in the end was not logic or sweet reason. It was relentless demoralizing rhetoric. These are psychologically weak individuals, so always hammer at their psychologies, don't waste time on their flawed ideas or perverse objectives.

25 comments:

ChickenChicken Sweep said...

"Name on a patent" might be the lowest and worst form of credentialism. Receiving a patent is being granted marketing rights; it says exactly squat about the value or even feasibility of the idea being patented.

"MY WHOLE GODDAMN LIFE I’ve been told that I was “too much”. Too loud. Too opinionated. Too brash. Too arrogant. Too abrasive. Too bossy."

And if you realized those people were actually trying to help you rather than trying "force you into a box", maybe things would have turned out better for you.

KSC said...

"MY WHOLE GODDAMN LIFE I’ve been told that I was “too much”. Too loud. Too opinionated. Too brash. Too arrogant. Too abrasive. Too bossy."

Gee, I wonder why; this post certainly gives no clues.

Mr.MantraMan said...

Some dude probably asked her a couple of questions and the cognitive dissonance was triggered over her particular illusions and that was that.

Now imagine her facing some Muslims in a social situation instead of the usual timorous white westerners who pedestalize her?

Escoffier said...

The irony Mr. Mantra Man is that her being confronted by uncompromising men who brook none of her crap would most likely be the most liberating day of her misbegotten life.

Kallmunz said...

My favorite part of her rant....

There are so many men in our community who know about the treatment I have received and who have never said anything publicly, not even once. In their ringing silence, I hear only indifference to my suffering and am reminded that I will always be seen as less because of my gender, and I will never be able to change that. And because of that, it will always be my responsibility to fight my own oppression.


Ah poor girl, no wonder she is stepping down, her knights in shining armor failed to come to her emotional rescue.

sapopular said...

"I might succeed in changing things BEHIND THE SCENES at a few gaming companies, or at affecting the lineup of speakers at a single convention, or seeing HARASSMENT POLICIES implemented at a handful of conventions and events".

Amazing that SJWs are unable to associate their psychotic attempts to control and censorship with the expected resistance of the targets.






Iowahine said...

Words of truth. Best post ever.

liberranter said...

First of all, reading this woman's blog is like reading graffiti scrawled on the walls of a mental institution. That she has managed to sustain any kind of readership for five years is telling of how widespread mental illness is among women today.

My mother was run out of STEM because of sexism, ruining a career as a brilliant research chemist. She has her name on 12 patents!

Sweetie, odds are that your mother was a token who bullied her way into STEM, having otherwise no qualifications whatsoever to be where she was. Or, alternatively and just as likely, she spent her time waging SJW instead of focusing on her profession, thereby making enemies of everyone she came into contact with. Like Momma, like daughter.

Women will use any tool to try to shame men into not fighting, they will appeal to any authority to forcibly silencing men by threatening their jobs, their freedom, and their families for nothing more than the crime of voicing an opinion. Because they simply cannot take the heat in a world of free expression.

The most common of these tools are men who white knight for creatures like the author cited above. Without their toxic assistance and enabling, such women would have never poisoned society with their presence to begin with, at least not in any influential way. Until we cleanse the gene pool of such "men," we will always be plagued by bitter feminism's noxious presence.

Timmy3 said...

What she described isn't abuse. Just people having other opinions. She should turn off comments, but its not those that visit her website that bother her. They seem to give unwavering support. She doesn't like the rest of the world that disagrees with her. She should learn to avoid reading them.

CarpeOro said...

"How can I tell my daughter that she can achieve anything of meaning when I have only stories of defeat to offer her?"

The truth? Her daughter should be considered her greatest achievement. Period. This is where her epic failure lies. As did her mother's.

Undocumented Pharmacist said...

For what its worth, I didn't know women could piss into the wind.

Matamoros said...

SJWism is inherently female. That is why SJW men are effeminate. Females cannot take criticism, nor can effeminate men.

Days of Broken Arrows said...

Her mother was "run out of STEM?" How is it that my ex-wife and all her former employees have all had long-term, successful careers in various STEM fields for decades? My guess is that this woman -- and her mother -- have some sort of personality disorder that makes people not like them, and then they blame that dislike on "sexism."

Reality check: Most people are at work to make a living, not randomly harass people -- unless those people get in their face first. My ex and her employees' biggest problem was that other employees would dump to much work on them because they were really good at what they did.

I was around their department enough to know if any sort of harassment or "abuse" went on and it didn't. And, yes, I know anecdotal evidence isn't foolproof, but all these women went to enough conventions and get-togethers that if this has been the norm, I'd have heard.

Felix Bellator said...

If she devoted half the effort of her whining into something productive she could have produced something of value. And the loser white knights in the comments, gack.....

ChickenChicken Sweep said...

"her knights in shining armor failed to come to her emotional rescue"

Riding across the desert on a fine Arab charger . . .

Oops, not the knights she'd hoped for.

Mr.MantraMan said...

I agree with Iowahine, the last paragraph save it for the ages.

Alfred Genesson said...

If I remember rightly, she considers her daughter her greatest failure because she WANTS a normal, healthy family and marriage. Her daughter is rejecting feminism for femininity, and I pray she stays the course despite the constant poisoning she gets.

The Alt-Right DM said...

From Sandwich Girl's Blog: "Or at least that’s how I was approaching things until several weeks ago, when the final straw happened. As is the way with such things, it was so small. Such a quiet thing those most community insiders, even, probably missed. Really, it doesn’t even matter what the event was."

Oh, I think we all know what she’s talking about. We all know the small thing was that most community insiders missed that she daren’t name. It was my publishing a game called "Shitlord: The Triggering" that mercilessly mocked that woman and everything she stands for. Now, it wasn't just me, mind you. There were a lot of other straws piled on her back before me, but it's pretty clear from the timing that mine was the anvil that broke her back.

You're welcome.

-The Alt-Right DM

Marsh 01701 said...
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Marsh 01701 said...

Undocumented Pharmacist. I hiked the Appalachian Trail and met another woman hiker who could piss without having to take her backpack off. Every other woman hiker admired the heck out of that trick. The TIME she saved! What a hiker!

Tom K. said...

First, a question: Does she have a name? Is she someone anyone in gamergate would know? I don't follow it but I did a cursory search of her dried vomit and never saw her name.

Second, a thought: Darlin', you said you live in the wilds of Canada. I'll bet it's wonderful there and you obviously like untamed nature and the solitude.

So why the fuck do you want to fight the fucking patriarchy? Most people move North to ESCAPE a world they consider fucked up! You seem to have brought it with you! Good God! I can't imagine what your husband has to put up with. HE, I am sure, moved North to get AWAY from the drama but YOU drag that shit right into his desperately cloistered life! You should be abandoned.

Imagine if you tried to shit into the lives of the people of your community the way you shit all over gaming. You'd never do it and you know why? Because you know they'd shun you until you either moved or committed suicide!

Have you considered taking up self-harm as a hobby?

Kallmunz said...
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Kallmunz said...

Its name is Anna Kreider

liberranter said...

So why the fuck do you want to fight the fucking patriarchy? Most people move North to ESCAPE a world they consider fucked up! You seem to have brought it with you! Good God! I can't imagine what your husband has to put up with. HE, I am sure, moved North to get AWAY from the drama but YOU drag that shit right into his desperately cloistered life!

It's really very simple: women need drama in their lives as much as they need food, water, and oxygen. A life without drama is slow death for a woman, like Lou Gehrig's disease only more painful.

Kallmunz said...

The Bitch has been stung. Apparently someone had the audacity to disagree with her on her echo chamber, err blog. The comments are now closed. Bow your head Anna, you've been Trumped!

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