Saturday, February 20, 2016

Alpha Mail: mudshark in the making?

A reader is concerned about his daughter's infatuation with a basketball player of mixed race:
My daughter is a junior high cheerleader and has the hots for a mixed boy on the basketball team. I have a problem with this. My main issue is that she will become a target, a mark so to speak for other black males. They will then think they can press up on this white girl.  The Caucasian males will depart from her quickly as she has become a girl who is on the other side.

I'm not hip with it. I'm really unsure how to right what I perceive to be a wrong. I know that you've proven that segregation happens naturally, and I agreed up until now. Any ideas on how to steer  my child in the direction I want without losing her?
First, it's important to talk to girls about racial issues BEFORE their hormones kick in. Fortunately, the reader's daughter is too young to be permitted to date yet and therefore the reader can use that excuse to buy time.

Second, be direct. The Gamma approach of sniping and taking cheapshots with the idea that this will "make your disapproval known" does not work at all. If you're the father, be the father. Lay down the law. Muslim fathers don't hesitate to tell their daughters who they are, and are not, permitted to date, Indian and Asian fathers are very nearly as strict. Jewish parents, mothers especially, are hardly shy about telling their sons they want them to marry "a nice Jewish girl".

There is no reason a white father should hesitate to tell his daughters what sort of young men are approved and what sort are not, regardless of what his criteria might be. And he should do so without any fear of "losing her", because in the end, a girl is going to either decide to respect her father's wishes or she is going to follow her hormones. It's always her call... but she can't possibly respect her father's wishes if she doesn't even know what they are. If you're not okay with it, then it is your duty as her father to tell her that you're not okay with it, even if her reaction is to denounce you as a racist, sexist, transphobic bigot while filming herself being urinated on by an African rapper with a sub-80 IQ.

If you don't think fathers influence their daughter's decisions, take one look at Bruce Jenner. Think that just MIGHT have a little something to do with the spectacularly bad decision-making of the girls he helped raise?

Third, if you are seriously concerned about the situation, take drastic measures. Put her in private school. Move, if necessary. The historic white flight to the suburbs wasn't all about crime.

However, this is an object lesson in what activities a father permits his daughter to pursue. It's not surprising that she is drawn to the basketball players because she is a basketball cheerleader. As The Book of Basketball informs us, it is a black sport and therefore the alphas in that world are predominantly black. Girls always go for the alphas of their acquaintance; the girls who played tennis all dated tennis players, the skiiers dated skiiers, the swimmers dated swimmers, and the girls who played soccer mostly dated soccer players.

If you don't want your daughter to mudshark, then don't encourage her to get involved in activities and sports that are dominated by black culture, particularly in her sexually formative years. Get her involved in gymnastics or tennis or skiing or swimming.

Regardless, it's better to risk a few tears and tantrums now than have to write her a letter like this father in ten years.

26 comments:

Matamoros said...

Good points. Ideally the parents should have begun inculcating pride into her ancestry at an early age. It can be as simple as "I am a White, Christian, American girl and I'm proud of my family and people." Repeat often, and have them repeat the phrase as well so that it locks in.

Mr.MantraMan said...

Some white girls see thru the propaganda and basically in short see blacks as losers and those that end up with them as subjects of daytime television. Also doesn't hurt if your kid is friends with non-whites, no white guilt there. Our kids Mexican friends were quite blunt about the most glorious people of vibrant color.

If blacks think they will ride the top rail for a thousand year reign of vibrancy, HA. More like "Pulp Fiction" ball gag time for a look into the future.

Stg58/Animal Mother said...

When I read my boys books at night before bedtime, I tell them they are Men of the West. It will sink in eventually, then it will mean something when we read LOTR.

Michael said...

When I was a young man, one of the church ladies said to me, "Do you want your children to look like that?" It was no for me! And, yes being 6'0" height and wright appropriate, the son of a beauty queen, with, what has been described as azure blue eyes, got me lots of tail by all age categories. If she thinks they are ugly( besides stupid), she won't be dropping her drawers. You might think about volunteering at a soup kitchen with lots of them present. You can show her her future. In my mind, cheerleading would for basketball and other black sports would be a thing of the past a distant memory.

paworldandtimes said...

First, it's important to talk to girls about racial issues BEFORE their hormones kick in.

It's bad form to pimp one's own material but in this case it's worth it, if it even saves one life.

Kudos to the writer for taking action. You'd be surprised at the passivity from fathers one runs across.

How to Help Prevent Mudsharking

PA

Bob Wallace said...

Show her a people of the late mixed-breed Redd Fox and ask her if she wants her kids to look like that.

Bill Henry said...

Its pretty simple show her a video of the black genocide in Africa... Be a fucking man and just put the law down...

Cecil Henry said...


Miscegenation — The Final Solution to the White Problem.

The first thing any human being thinks of when someone brags about having mulatto kids is how UGLY they are. When Tiger married that Swedish model he was destroying what he appreciated. Her kids will look like any other mulattoes.

It is immoral to destroy what you appreciate. The Wordist say if Tiger wants blonds you should learn to appreciate whatever results.

Where does that kind of Morality end? It doesn’t. You have to build more and more on other lies to cover that one. The product of miscegenation is generally ugly children and a dead society.

I was picking up my wife at a beauty shop and a woman said, about miscegenation, “Looks don’t matter.” She was in the process of having a beauty treatment my wife couldn’t afford.

I said something like “So what are you doing HERE?” and she never spoke to my wife again.

Billy said...

I've had countless discussions with my daughters. These are logical points we discuss; low IQ children, STD rates, domestic violence, being left a single mom on welfare.
We are very family oriented. They are close to their grandparents and know the stories of there ancestors. Fathers day and Mothers day we go to the cemetery as a family, they see me speak to my grandfathers headstones and thank them for all they have done for us, even if they've never known me. One has to instill pride in their heritage.
We are 7% or so of the worlds population and shrinking, we are an endangered species. We owe it to our parents for their sacrifices to survive and exist. Even if minority's were incredible achieving people, one still wouldn't want to cut down their blood line by marrying one.
As Vox mentioned, I have them in private school to limit their interaction with coloreds.

Verne said...

I thought most guys knew not to let their little girls be a cheer leaders, unless you live in Provo Utah. Get them into playing sports. The water sports, soccer, tennis, gymnastics. Horses are a great pass time. And go to chruch. And while you do not want your kids to be white supremacists. Tell them the truth about other cultures. Don't hide the truth in order to look like a good modern wimp of a father.

Sokrates said...

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Being hard now will safe a lot of tears and hardship in the future.

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Dexter said...

@Verne,

Exactly.

The whole point of cheerleading is (a) men look at you, and (b) you are the sexual prize for the victorious male. Who the hell wants their daughter involved in that?

Billy said...

We are Orthodox Christians, I also strongly push marrying within the faith. As that will reasonably keep them safe as the demographics of the church is very white. But the most important thing is to talk with them. I you do not, the popular culture will. Through outlets like The Kardashians.
Here is a good article from a Jewish man perspective on insuring his grand kids will be Jewish.

https://jewamongyou.wordpress.com/2010/02/23/reflections-of-a-racist-father/

Patrikbc said...

Consider homeschooling

Jed Mask said...

Hmmm... This is a fine read Mr. Day. As a CHRIST-ian young black man, this is indeed good advice for fathers in this case, "white fathers" for keeping their white daughters away from those unruly, "troublesome" black males that would "violate" and actually "blemish" and "taint" the value, chastity and virginity of high-quality white women (as with any high-quality woman).

When I was a kid raised around a predominately white environment I had many white girls showing signs of attraction towards me... Now along with the attractive women side of my own "race" I also like some Latin women, some Asian and even perhaps Jewish...

It's a sad, repetitive cycle that irritates me that my "wayward peers" go around DESTROYING themselves and the women of the black race and white race with all this FORNICATION and ADULTERY going amuck.

Good advice here Mr. Vox for those "black men" with sinister intentions.

None of this applies to the "good ones" though...

~ Peace in His Name,

Sincerely,

Bro. Jed

White Devil said...

If you don't want your daughter to mudshark, then don't encourage her to get involved in activities and sports that are dominated by black culture, particularly in her sexually formative years. Get her involved in gymnastics or tennis or skiing or swimming.

Look at all the stuff the Asian parents are stereotyped for.

White Devil said...

The whole point of cheerleading is (a) men look at you, and (b) you are the sexual prize for the victorious male. Who the hell wants their daughter involved in that?

Versus what, drama classes? Hanging out at the mall? Going with her boyfriend to watch him on his dirtbike or skateboard?

Pilgrim of the East said...

@Jed Mask:
really, man? Have some self-respect. Even though there is nothing inherently wrong in the preference of own race (in a same way there is nothing wrong in preferring blondes to brunettes), if Vox puts "mudshark" in the title, it should be clear to you that he doesn't give a f*ck about you being the exemplary case of christian man (and note that you are even in worse position than the guy in story - his only fault was being mixed while you are black).

But don't think Vox is racist, he is actually Native american (due to his 1/16 of that heritage), so he can't be racist, ofc...

And speaking about fornication here? Believe me, most people here are (or were before got married) pros.

I have two advises for you:
Stop supplicating to people even if you have high opinion of them. If you think they are being assholes, call them on it. It's better to be respectable enemy than despised suck-up.
Judge trees by their fruits. If someone professes himself christian, check if he loves his neighbors and enemies - if he doesn't even appear to try, it doesn't matter that he wrote books on christianity.

VD said...

But don't think Vox is racist, he is actually Native american (due to his 1/16 of that heritage), so he can't be racist, ofc...

You obviously don't know anything about my American Indian heritage. Nor even seen my family.

Michael Maier said...

Funny this came up today after watching a mudshark and her man at ChickFilA. 5/10 at best. Overweight, maybe semi-cute on a really good day.

Black dude, short, small but slim and ripped. Mate-guarding body language out the arse. Sitting next to her and looked to be crushing her to him. And looking around in a very insecure manner at the entire joint around him.

He should know that no one is going to challenge him over THAT.

As for mixed-kids, I feel for them. I've had a few tell me they don't feel as though they belong anywhere. I could never do that to my own child.

Plus, I can see my grandfather in my face. What are the odds my grandchild would be able to say the same if I marry outside my race?

Pilgrim of the East said...

@VD:
here in Europe it's called hyperbole, I thought that as a writer you should be familiar with it. That said, I'm glad that's the only problem you had with my comment...

The Viking said...

http://www.nbc-2.com/story/31271675/woman-in-coma-after-alleged-craigslist-roommate-attack#.VsnsoZMrJKM

Bodichi said...
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B.J. said...

FYI - That "letter from my father" is fake. It sounded too good(cartoonishly evil) to be true; turned out she wrote it to get back at dad for getting into a fight:

http://imgur.com/qUvcDkY

Everyone repeat after me: Women lie. You should distrust everything they say by default.

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