The Gamma obsesses. The Alpha acts. He takes decisive action, so that not only will that person not dare slight him again, but neither will anyone watching it.
Alphas have so much on their plate that they don't have time to deal with shit that has become chronic in the relationship. Rather, they nip it at the bud, the moment they first detect it. That's how they get so much done. They have way less shit to deal with per person than the rest of us.This is absolutely correct. Think about the way a Gamma considers a woman in whom he is interested. He dwells on her. He adores her from afar. He waits for months for the right moment to say something to her. If his courage fails, he pens note after note, attempting to strike just the right words that will win her heart. This process can take years.
The Alpha doesn't have that kind of time. He wants the girl today, and if she's not available or amenable, the sooner he finds out, the better.
There is irony. Women even like Alphas better than Gammas when they are rejecting them.
With women, as with everything else in life, strive to fail faster. The most expensive cost is opportunity cost.