I did a seminar recently at the U of MN Duluth. It was my "Why Gen Y is Completely, Totally and Hopelessly Screwed" seminar. And while admittedly the seminar is not the politest or most adroit speech, when it came to the "What were you told you SHOULD like in the opposite sex" portion of the lecture, an interesting thing happened. I asked the young men in the audience what they found attractive in a woman. Not what they were told to like, but what they in fact did like.This illustrates the primary difference between ALPHA and BETA. It is fear. Women can sense male fear. They can practically smell it. They don't find it attractive, in fact, it is a distinct turn-off to them. They often despise it. However, this doesn't mean women are going to come right out and say that they are attracted to men who aren't afraid of them, or at the very least, signal that they are not afraid.
Not one of them answered.
OH, they KNEW the answers, their sheepish faces and smirks gave that away, but they couldn't answer for they feared what the repercussions would be.
Observing this phenomeon right in front of me, I took the opportunity to point out something so sad, but so very true. I said
"My god, look at how brainwashed they have you guys. You can't even speak the truth."
I then bellowed out the truth....
Now, remember, feelings are difficult to articulate, especially to the opposite sex, so it is often necessary to translate cross-sex statements. In this vein, we can decode what a woman means when she says the following:
So much of Game simply revolves around conquering your fear in order to behave more like the naturals who simply don't feel it for one reason or another. Whether it involves initial approaches or marital relations, fear is the sex killer.
It's understandable why so many men are afraid. Fear has been instilled in them by 16 years or more of relentless feminist propaganda in the educational system, in the ruthless reinforcing of the female imperative by their parents, their teachers, their pastors
But it's all a lie. Bad things are not going to happen if you refuse to avoid offending and upsetting women. You are not committing to living a monk-like existence devoid of female companionship if you fail to regularly kowtow to the female imperative, in fact, in case you haven't noticed, those of us whose default position is open contempt for that imperative tend to do considerably better with them than you do. And if you have reached the point where you are so fearful that you can't even admit that you find a long mane of wavy hair or a tight, well-formed female posterior to be attractive, you can't reasonably call yourself a man. You're nothing more than a sad, pathetic drone.
So stop being afraid. It isn't masculine. It isn't attractive. It isn't even Christian, for that matter. Conquer your fear, and that is the first step in developing Game and moving up the socio-sexual hierarchy.