Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Alpha Mail: 10 percent

That is what one woman, who considers herself to have a mild case of hybristophilia, calculates based on the employment statistics:
Regarding the "bad boys" post at AG today, I found a Canadian article stating that 33% of U.S. prison workers are women, but they account for 70% of the sexual misconduct cases. So, the extrapolated number for the percentage of women affected by hybristophilia is about 10%.

This topic interests me, because I would categorize myself as having a mild case of hybristophilia. One of the things that attracted me to [REDACTED]... he is just bad enough to be appealing without any significant drawbacks. I don't understand it, because I consider myself a highly refined, moral, and gentle woman, but I am very attracted to violent men.

Interestingly, some of my female colleagues go out of their way to [help out in] prisons in their spare time. It seems rather noble at first, but now that you've posted this article, I wonder if some of them aren't motivated by feelings of attraction for the inmates.
Being a less-than-entirely nonviolent man myself - I spent six years doing MMA-style martial arts - I've noticed that more than a few women get more than a little bright-eyed when they find out about the fact that you beat the hell out of someone. Or better yet, several someones. I also knew one woman who would get visibly excited about the possibility of being struck.

This is an aspect of female nature that those of you who pride yourself on being gentlemanly and non-violent and "I would never hit a woman" need to keep in mind. People are what they are, not what you imagine them to be, and women are much more likely to fantasize about being tied up and ravished by Nazis than having gentlemen tip their fedoras to them.

24 comments:

Ron said...

People are what they are, not what you imagine them to be, and women are much more likely to fantasize about being tied up and ravished by Nazis than having gentlemen tip their fedoras to them.

So ... then the ultimate goal is to be a Fedora tipping gentleman that ties women up and ravishes them?

En-sigma said...

Reminiscent of one of your historical posts that highlighted a video of a man standing in a doorway when a woman punches him and he knocks her through the window.

One of my to 10 favorite posts.

Bubba said...

A friend met a woman in a Laundromat many, many years ago. They chatted and eventually dated (briefly). The affair ended when they were having sex one night and she started saying, "Spank me. Hit me."

He ignored her at first, but she kept asking for it. Eventually he slapped her bottom a few times. She said, "Harder. HARDER", and he complied. Her demands for abuse got more strident until he, freaked out, finally said, "No!"

She became enraged as if a switch had been flipped. She turned on him in bed and started viciously berating him. After a furious verbal fight (on her part) he kicked her out of the house.

On later reflection, he realized her viciousness was her last furious attempt to enrage him and get him to beat her.

His takeaway: Some women desperately want to be dominated and abused. If you don't become the violent, dominating man they want, they will keep looking until they find one. He never went back to the Laundromat.

Daniel said...

So ... then the ultimate goal is to be a Fedora tipping gentleman that ties women up and ravishes them?

You could do worse than Colin Firth

Timmy3 said...

"I would never hit a woman". I would think it isn't necessarily pride that forces a man to say this. The cost is just too great to hit a woman in reality. I had an ex that was rather provocative at times. She would make me upset and suggest that I'll hit her. That was insulting and maybe I'll just do that. Of course, women being manipulative and scheming, it's part of a plan to alienate me so I would leave her. The reality is she was leaving anyways. I would take pride in not hitting a woman because I'd rather not spend time in jail.

praetorian said...

Jesus Christ (he said without blaspheme) that's depressing...

Hammerli280 said...

I try to be gentlemanly...but that does NOT mean non-violent. A gentleman should be ready, willing, and able to kill whenever required. Skill at arms goes with the position.

liberranter said...

This is an aspect of female nature that those of you who pride yourself on being gentlemanly and non-violent and "I would never hit a woman" need to keep in mind.

I keep thinking back to the scene in the Martin Lawrence movie Welcome Home, Roscoe Jenkins where he's getting into a fight with his sister (played by landwhale actress Mo'nique) and he tells her (paraphrasing) "I'll never hit a woman, but I'll beat the shit of a bitch!"

Exactly so.

Ron said...

@Hammerli280

There is a world of truth in what you just wrote.

They remembered the "gentle" part, but forgot that it includes the word "man"

LP9 Forever Solidified in Gold! Rin Integra S.I.G. said...

Disgusting, how many were MRC hook ups, or faggy women with butchbitch - ruin, such ruin.

Bad boys will get you killed. See what happened to Tara in Sons of Anarchy - bad, bad, choice. Even though its just a tv show/book, etc.

(Katie Hopkins does a great take on how she does not find the inking and body mods on men employable or attractive. Who the hell wants to work in a jail but men with same sex inmates.

If in entertainment, music, arts, body art; for men is in a different application.)

Feather Blade said...

A man with the demonstrated physical capability to wreck somebody is pretty attractive to a woman who wants a reasonable chance of not being carried off and raped (alas, English, that you have fallen so far that this phrase is no longer redundant!) by barbarians.

ray said...

Many females love violence, as long as it serves their agenda/bias, and is committed upon a male. As for themselves, they do not allow even verbal disagreement, as that is Assault or, more commonly, Verbal Harassment. Yes they will put you in a cage for it. If you're male that is. Otherwise not.

It's not just the attraction to violence that women guards like. Nor is it simply access to sex for female guards, and if you know any, or look at their photos, you'll understand why they needed a 'job' in a male prison in order to get laid.

But the biggest attraction for female 'guards' is getting off on the power trip of having so many males under their thumb and (false) authority. It's a daily, not a one-time thing. It's more of the Necessary and Official Degradation of masculinity that must take place in America, and around the world, before females can be Equal, Oppression can finally be lessened, and we can all start to live in Equality Nirvana.

The only thing more evil than the females who 'guard' males in America's vast (male) Prison Industrial Complex, are the men who likewise get off on it all, and think it's just great. And take home those nice steady salaries.

VFM #7634 said...

Ray, how many times do we have to tell you not to take what women say they want, or even pretend to act like they want, at face value? Do you even know what a shit test is, bruh?

1337kestrel said...

His takeaway: Some women desperately want to be dominated and abused.

That's one of the best arcs of Horimiya... http://www.mangareader.net/horimiya/43/9 Amazing what other cultures take for granted, but Americans have denied for so long we are ignorant.

Unknown said...

"A man with the demonstrated physical capability to wreck somebody is pretty attractive to a woman who wants a reasonable chance of not being carried off and raped by barbarians."

Yeah, those little vixens love to play "let's you and him fight". For a perfect example watch the classic Western movie, "The Big Country"....nails it!

Aeoli Pera said...

People are what they are, not what you imagine them to be, and women are much more likely to fantasize about being tied up and ravished by Nazis than having gentlemen tip their fedoras to them.

What if I'm a supreme gentleman tho.

#MostSigma

Aeoli Pera said...

Inspired by a recent Heartiste post, I'm wondering how much this is caused by the female pleasure in being smacked down (literally and figuratively) in response to a compliance test. Violent crime essentially guarantees a lack of restraint, so you know a violent criminal will always pass a shit test.

Re: Lesbian domestic violence via escalation spiral.

DN1515 said...

A normal adult feminine personality has made peace with the fact women are smaller and weaker than men. They respect men's strength but do not fear it without cause.

Wanting and appreciating masculine men and even enjoying their domineering traits is not the same as seeking out violent playacting. None of these women would be "turned on" if they ended up in the hands of cruel men. They are seeking a fantasy so they can feel they can hold their own against male power.

Have your fun, if you must. And this may very well be what most women these days are like, but this type of thinking is not right or normal.

-DN

Aeoli Pera said...

So what I'm getting at is it's not like how children and subordinates will experiment with boundaries. Instead women enjoy testing and reaffirming boundaries:

" You can learn a lot by watching a lesbian work on her target paramour while out and about, too.

They push boundaries HARD. They know it works, and where the limits are, and walk right up to them. They understand the function of obligation in the female psyche.

Observe, and learn." -The Observer

tweell said...

The 'mild' cases would be considerably more than 10%, I'd say it's a majority of women. They'd disagree, of course, but women are expert at lying to themselves.
My own mother is an excellent example. She was talking about how gentle Dad was, and was shocked when I started laughing. "Mom, you married a man who rode a motorcycle and went to bars to get in fights."

Arthur Isaac said...

Maybe that's why this guy was so successful?

https://www.rt.com/viral/341169-king-half-european-men/

Nicky Haflinger said...

If you assume human civility, ie ability not to be incarcerated, and female desire are both normally distributed, reasonable, and with the same variance, remotely possible, then these numbers suggest the mean female would be attracted to about the 12th percentile of guys. That would be well above prison levels and well below functioning society levels.

Oliver Märk said...

Women are strongly attracted to the „hard stuff“, whether they admit that it is so or not. Only blind or brainwashed people think otherwise.

From: http://freedompowerandwealth.com

Scott C said...

This will end in death. Game = death. Men destroying each other for the attention of women.

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