Friday, January 30, 2015

Seeking alpha

These ten points need to be read, repeatedly, to every delta and gamma male until he understands that women like sex in and of itself:


See anything about love, intellectual admiration, or rewarding loyalty and sincere devotion there, Gamma boys? 

In addition to the Alpha aspects, one reason why women prefer Sigmas for casual sex is that they know the Sigma isn't likely to stick around and want a relationship: "a 2011 study out of the University of Michigan found that when women can be assured of “safety” and “sexual prowess,” they were just as likely as men to opt for a night of commitment-free sex."

23 comments:

Anchorman said...

More recently, a 2011 study out of the University of Michigan found that when women can be assured of “safety” and “sexual prowess,” they were just as likely as men to opt for a night of commitment-free sex.

“The extent to which women and men believed that the proposer would be sexually skilled predicted how likely they would be to engage in casual sex with this individual,” read the study.


"Other women want to bang him, so I better get in on the good"

This does bring up the old debate of whether a guy should lower standards to slump-bust.

Anonymous said...

Yeah, they must have forgotten to list, "Because I'm really a good girl who wants to get married and I just wanted him to love me."

It's not the point, but I get a kick out of the way they now reflexively avoid singular pronouns even when there's no feminist panties-wadding issue with them. It's a study specifically about heterosexual women, so why the awkward "the person" instead of "he"?

Laguna Beach Fogey said...

Careful, Vox, these truths about women are liable to drive the Gamma boys and Tradcons to suicide. Shattered illusions, ruined dreams.

That girls are just as likely as men to engage in casual sex can be shocking to those with more delicate sensibilities.

Case in point: I'm banging a hot 19-year old, before we met in person, kept informing me via text that she's not interested in a casual fling and doesn't have sex on "the first or second date." She informed me that she wanted commitment and was looking for a relationship. By the end of our first meeting this week, she was kissing me, rubbing herself all over me, and imploring me to take her home and fuck her.

Interestingly, she had some not-so-nice things to say about boys her own age, which is where blogs such as Alpha Game and Chateau Heartiste can provide a lot of insight and advice.

Women are amusing creatures. It's almost tragic, in a way, that some of us are drawn to them so much.

MATT said...

And yet they're all still miserable.

MATT said...

"As expected, women reported more physical motivations for casual sex and more emotional motivations for sex in a committed relationship,” read the study."

Translation: they do nasty stuff with guys they don't give one shit about and force you to pay for seversl dates before giving you an uninspired bj.

All the more reason to next a girl that doesn't give it up immediately. If she looks like a slut and acts like a slut but doesn't give up the goods, don't waste your time.

Unless you meet the unicorn snowflake virgin who truly is worth it - in which case MARRY HER - it isn't worth the headache.

Guitar Man said...

This just in: YOUNG WOMEN IN THE PRIME OF THEIR LIFE ENJOY SEX WITH ATTRACTIVE MEN!

Salt said...

It's said a woman knows in less than a minute (a NY second for some) if they'll a bang a guy.

DaveofSpades said...

"Salt said...
It's said a woman knows in less than a minute (a NY second for some) if they'll a bang a guy."

In my somewhat odd experience, a woman knows who she WON'T bang in less than a minute. Otherwise, they're willing to be convinced. Until you're a definite no, you're a "don't screw it up".

Unknown said...

'See anything about love, intellectual admiration, or rewarding loyalty and sincere devotion there'

No but you also don't see the resulting depression, mental instability and insanity, and the pressures of living a life of deception either. But hey an alpha thrill is an alpha thrill, right?

hank.jim said...

I'm sure women love sex, just not with delta and gamma male. Physical appearance, exciting, and adventurous are in numerous categories. I'm sure most men don't fit the description.

Anonymous said...

Is this a time where we take women at there word?

deti said...

“In my somewhat odd experience, a woman knows who she WON'T bang in less than a minute. Otherwise, they're willing to be convinced. Until you're a definite no, you're a "don't screw it up".”

Yeah, and many times it’s even easier than that. If you don’t screw it up, you just stand back, do your thing, and she’ll convince herself.

deti said...

javaloco:

I'll tend to take women at their word where, as here, their words line up with their actions.

In this case I believe what these women are saying because it coincides pretty much perfectly with what they're doing. Not only that, it tells us what kind of men they're doing it with (borne out by the evidence), and why they do it (also with ample evidentiary support).

Unknown said...

But, but, Milady would never stoop to such lows...

Bob said...

"
Case in point: I'm banging a hot 19-year old, before we met in person, kept informing me via text that she's not interested in a casual fling and doesn't have sex on "the first or second date." She informed me that she wanted commitment and was looking for a relationship. By the end of our first meeting this week, she was kissing me, rubbing herself all over me, and imploring me to take her home and fuck her."

Heh, EVERY woman I've banged has said the exact same too. Even an Indian 26 year old (hot, nerdy) virgin I banged in her dorm on the first date. I just ignore it nowadays.


As to the topic, I'm honestly surprised that "It was in the heat of the moment" or something similar wasn't higher, given women's tendency to lie or make excuses with anything like this.

jlw said...

This list would only depress an omega, I would think. What list should omegas read?

Stg58/Animal Mother said...

Universal advice: marry them young and mold them yourself, before society and Jessica Valenti can.

Anonymous said...

Apparently, these days, the nihilistic and the faithful are pushing the same bleak picture of man-as-animal to be manipulated. Well, they're not that different. Both riding the same train, one holding on tight to his ticket to paradise, the other one staring down at his feet and gritting his teeth.

S. Thermite said...

Apparently, these days, the nihilistic and the faithful are pushing the same bleak picture of man-as-animal to be manipulated

Understanding common human behaviors and motivations, rather than believing an un-scriptural mythology that a certain segment of the population is inherant more spiritual and pure, does not imply manipulation.

Harambe said...

Universal advice: marry them young and mold them yourself, before society and Jessica Valenti can.

So, we're supposed to marry 12 year olds?

CarpeOro said...

My wife's sister was left by herself in Lost Wages when their cousin decided to have a one-night stand with a guy she just met. My wife isn't ready to hear the bulk of my opinion's regarding her cousin so I let it slide. She was mad enough at her cousin for ditching her sister, but probably wouldn't have understood anything I said about the downside of her cousin's general behavior. Not too surprising, the last boyfriend she had was a drug dealer in Detroit that she'd fly up and see before he went to jail. Turns 40 this year, hitting the wall (fit body but face is sliding) and can't understand why she can't find a good guy.

Anonymous said...

Must have been written by a journalism major. Their list of ten items is really only two items, said ten different ways: 1. He was attractive, 2. I like sex. And #1 was probably a significant part in #2. And the list was restricted to casual sex and women who would admit they were having it. It says nothing about women who choose modesty, propriety, and chastity.

Hoàng Huy said...

Yeah, they must have forgotten to list, "Because I'm really a good girl who wants to get married and I just wanted him to love me." ::))
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