Wednesday, June 28, 2017

This is what a good wife looks like

To say nothing of proof that NAWALT:
Having been sold a pack of feminist lies that make both men and women unhappier, those of us in the millennial generation who are interested in happy marriages have had to rediscover a lot of politically incorrect truths from scratch.

But there’s one truth that is particularly difficult for our genderless, sexless culture to accept, because it eviscerates not one, but two shibboleths of the age: first, that men and women desire the same things in relationships, and second, that a selfish, “be yourself” attitude is a good prescription for marital bliss.

The unspeakable truth is this: a spouse’s physical appearance is much more likely to be important to men than women. Maintaining their figures and beauty—through reasonable efforts—is one important way that women can make their husbands happy.
My wife is in phenomenal condition. She works very hard to stay that way. And, indeed, after children, it is one of the greatest gifts a wife can give her husband.

25 comments:

Andrew said...

Can confirm. It's a tremendous gift of love and self-sacrifice from my wife to me. And when you're with groups of other couples, your status is can be raised as much as two notches to walk in with someone fit, attractive, and sexy.

Kentucky Headhunter said...

One of the women my wife walks with told her that her husband has said that he didn't really care what she looked like fitness wise. I immediately concluded:

1. He's lying.
2. He's banging his secretary/some other chick.

Later it also occurred to me what an insult that is to her and a DLV by him that statement is. Its basically telling her that yes, she looks like shit, and he doesn't value himself enough to care that he's with a fat slob.

dc.sunsets said...
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dc.sunsets said...

My point: life is lived in stages. One can and should try to prolong certain stages, but it's delusional to think the next stage can be delayed forever.

No matter how much I enjoyed the prior stages of my life, I now wish I had enjoyed them twice as much.

Perhaps it's unavoidable to eventually wish one indulged more of the present that has become the past.

Wanderer said...

One politically incorrect truth that ex-feminists ought to learn is that, according to scientific research, the more sex partners a woman has then the more permanent damage she does for her ability to pair bond. More sex partners = guaranteed divorce and guaranteed you will never have a happy family and marriage.

Sorry ladies, but you being remorseful and regretful in your 30s of your feminist past doesn't alter the fact that you all sucked and fucked all throughout your teens and 20s. Enjoy the cats and boxed wine or, at best, cuddling with your soy-infused househusband.

paworldandtimes said...

No one expects a woman near or after menopause to look sexy. The expectation is that she looks pleasant: slim, nicely dressed and well groomed, a smile on her face -- things that look good at any age.

PA

dc.sunsets said...

A woman who maintains her appearance at the best level reasonably possible is one who understands a key component to a lasting, happy marriage.

If I can, I hope to impart some of this to my grandkids. Chastity is the gift you offer the person with whom you will spend most of your life. Physical intimacy is THE path to emotional intimacy. Self-respect is the essential precursor to mutual respect, the essential ingredient of all successful human relationships.

We live in a time where all Central Truths are inverted. People are told incessantly that sex doesn't matter, boundaries don't matter, self-improvement doesn't matter. All of this is wrong.

DeploraBard said...

Honor in menopause could be it's own post. We know they will decline much faster than us, but hopefully, she is the wife of your youth, mother of your children, and you regard her as the companion for you to grow old with (Don't forget the new role as grandparents either). The trade off is worth it if she is.

DeploraBard said...

Wife is 44. She is very fit and works out 5-6 days a week. Her skin shows some aging, but her maturity and class more than compensate. Class in aging for women is the equivalent of wisdom in men. They need to grow old gracefully.

Annie DiPiombo said...

At 41 years of age and one kid my wife has a shape that most 25 year olds would kill for...long tapering showgirl pins, full rounded thighs and a rear end that still causes men to run into lampposts like a cartoon character.

I wish I could say that this was due to sacrifice & hard work to make me happy but the reality of the situation is she spends most of her time sitting on that blue ribbon backside eating macaroons and checking social media. She just has superior genetics and weird metabolism and fat distribution that looks like it was designed by the guy who drew jessica rabbit.

dc.sunsets said...

PA, you nailed it.

A woman can remain physically (sexually) attractive perhaps as long as she lives. Key, as I see it is maintaining a reality (keeping slim, dressing well, etc.) such that her husband has something real on which to complement her. We all need to have our confidence boosted by those we love, and a woman returns that favor by playful enthusiasm behind closed doors. Whether 19 or 59, a girl who flashes some smooth curve of breast while hinting of more that's available (on a completely exclusive basis) sews much joy and fun into her marriage.

The joys husbands find in their wives' bodies and their wives' enthusiasm for physical romance are what translates youthful lust into a lifetime of intimate partnership walking Happiness Path together.

dc.sunsets said...

@Anne D. One kid explains much. Most girls get fully back to prekid after one. It takes commitment to do it after 3 or 4. Kudos in any case. We get one life to live (for certain) and having a partner who stirs your passion over your entire life is a major benefit.

dc.sunsets said...

PS: I pity husbands whose wives sleep in sweatsuits or similarly bland attire.

Jed Mask said...

Great wife advice from the seasoned aged men reporting in.

Take note fellow young men lurking. Amen.

~ Bro. Jed

NathAn Schuster said...

Married 32 years. 12 kids 5 grand kids. My wife is still beautiful. Face like an angel. 38Ddd. Tiny waste. Long graceful legs. Perfect derriere. She does a lot of walking to stay fit. Skin so soft it is like touching a cloud
I find the stretch marks that eleven pregnancies have her actually very sexy. I imagine yhsts because they remind me that she loves me enough to have given me twelve children.

Timmy3 said...

Article goes much further. Having a great attitude is just as important.

ThirdMonkey said...

Feminism is Cancer. Femininity is the cure. I am thankful that after 20 years of marriage and 4 children, my wife understands this. We both work hard to look good nekked for each other.

Tatooine Sharpshooters' Club said...

That's nice. Now what can we do to encourage more of them to be in shape before marriage? It's like a Hungry Hungry Hippo theme park out there!

dc.sunsets said...

FWIW my opinion is that the only thing to do is improve ourselves. If the rest of our fellowmen are doomed to full self-destruction (taking with them our world in total) there's nothing to do.

I believe the reversal has already begun, however. The OP is based on evidence that a leavening of young people are awake and that trend will spread. My grandchildren will see a repudiation of the saturating idiocy that surrounds us.

Michael Maier said...

Great piece.

I should share it on social media and piss off all the female relatives of mine...

SJ said...

My SIL only wears sweatpants and is 50 pounds above where she used to be. Meanwhile my brother is a solid 3 points SMV above her. But he's a total beta who told me, in front of my wife, only a few weeks ago, "oh here goes Snowden with his woman hate again".

Meanwhile my wife still looks incredible, wears a size 0, and unless you see her nude (which you will not) you would never know she bore me children. She wears dresses, high heels, and does her makeup right before I get home from work. She's upstairs making me food right now after I did a twelve hour workday.

But my ex wife? Oh my how things have changed. And thank you dear Lord that I got divorced and fed the red pill so young.

Oh if any betafag is reading this? I tell my wife to dress up for me, I smack her ass and still fuck her right. She absolutely *loves* my objectification of her and what she can give to me.

Kentucky Headhunter said...

That's nice. Now what can we do to encourage more of them to be in shape before marriage? It's like a Hungry Hungry Hippo theme park out there!

Don't marry a fat chick and train your sons not to marry fat chicks.

Dexter said...

Ironically, as I read this post, I am looking at three extremely fat moms who are sitting there poking at their phones...

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