Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Pedestal on steroids

Brendon Malone explains the Gamma perspective on women. Is it any wonder why women hate them so much?
I don’t open doors, or practice other acts of chivalry towards women because I look at them and think: ‘geez, she looks like a frail weakling incapable of scaling the great heights of masculine awesomeness which gives us the muscular strength that females lack for door opening prowess. I better open this door for her before her poor tiny confused female brain makes her cry because it can’t figure out the engineering dynamics of door opening.’

No, instead when I look at women I see the feminine genius. A genius so profoundly complex, important and valuable that I adore it. I adore the feminine genius because I am a real man who has not had his masculine awareness dulled by erroneous ideologies about gender, or seriously messed up by pornography-fueled predatory attitudes towards women.

As a real man I know that for my masculinity to scale the heights of greatness, I depend totally on the feminine genius to become the best that a man can ever be – in much the same way that I depend on oxygen to keep on living.

Without the complimentary and amazing feminine genius I can never be a real man. Instead I am doomed to be nothing more than the masculine equivalent of a rōnin – the Japanese name for a samurai without a master to lead him, a term which literally means “wave man” because he is adrift without direction and purpose.

I open doors for women because I know they deserve my profound adoration and selfless love. My tiny act of sacrifice is my way of saying ‘I am in awe of your feminine genius and all that I owe to it as a man’.

Any man who tries to tell you to stop opening doors for women is unvirtuous and selfish – he is not a real man. Do not listen to him.
Got that? Unless you have a female master, you are not a real man. I, for one, am proud to not be a real man by Malone's definition. And if you want to avoid having a healthy, mutually satisfying sexual relationship with an attractive woman, by all means, listen to him and put his principles into action.

This is the male equivalent of women who advise other women to lean in and show how strong and independent they are. Women reliably say they want submissive men, but they are just as reliably attracted to the hostile sexists. So, it's really just a question of whether you want to have women approve of you or be attracted to you.

Choose one.

39 comments:

Anonymous said...

This made me I'll. And I have been around fresh dead bodies. I think the author must have sexually abused by his mother or sister. Maybe an aunt

D.R. Brooker said...

I thought it was satire. I really really wish it was.

swiftfoxmark2 said...

I couldn't help but laugh at this fool. Reminds me of my own post on the subject: She's Not Your Better Half.

Glen Filthie said...

Well, with a name like Brendon you just KNOW the guy is either a faggot or a puss. Either way he isn't worth wasting time or words on.

Trust said...

Reminds me of preachers who twist "respect your husband" to mean "only if he has yielded to Christ in a manner acceptable to the wife and all is void if she can twist anything in the entire Bible into a shortcoming in his part."

Love thy wife? That is absolute law that means what it says and changeth not.

Revelation Means Hope said...

That is purely disgusting. I feel contaminated just reading it. Thankfully I can do some isometrics here at work and get some testosterone pumping to wash away the gamma filth from my consciousness.

Seriously, I'm going to have to be more careful what I read before beginning my work day. That bit of submissive drivel could have completely derailed my productivity for the day if I'd let it take hold of my frame.

Since my latest consulting gig has me leading large teams of vibrant women, I cannot let my frame slip at all, not even for 5 minutes.

AJ Popo said...

I made it to feminist genius before the logic part of my brain tried to shut down.

I think I finally get why young men need to be around their fathers. If I ever said anything close to this my father would ask me if I'm retarded.

Matt said...

Instead I am doomed to be nothing more than the masculine equivalent of a rōnin – the Japanese name for a samurai without a master to lead him, a term which literally means “wave man” because he is adrift without direction and purpose.

I'd probably take 3:1 odds this guy is 1) overweight, 2) has a neckbeard, and 3) has anime wallscrolls in his bedroom.

rycamor said...

Looking at the blog, what's sad is that this guy is apparently a Christian, and has a whole section on Manhood. Look at his Four vital lessons that we need to teach young men. Nothing wrong with those lessons (although there are a few passive-aggressive asides in there), but nowhere is leadership mentioned. Not once.

Happy Housewife said...

Yeah, I felt my skin crawl. This is the guy that you pray doesn't open the door for you as you approach, simply to avoid the interaction.

Anonymous said...

Shudddderrrr. I couldn't actually finish the excerpt.

This is the male equivalent of women who advise other women to lean in and show how strong and independent they are.

I disagree. Oh, it's equally bad advice from a practical standpoint, but I think it comes from a different wellspring. Women sabotage other women on purpose, weakening the competition. e.g. "Oh, you'd look fabulous with short hair". It's their competitive nature. But this gamma, he actually believes his drivel. He's not trying to sabotage his competition in the eyes of women, he's trying to redefine himself as superior in his own view.

Is there a cure for gamma?

Greg said...

After reading a couple of his articles, I'd have to say that this guy isn't the worst example of a gamma. He has a few strong opinions. In the article you highlight, he is calling out the nonsense of benevolent sexism.

In another, he calls out the nonsense that men are more prone to start wars and be violent than women. He notes that the reason that men have started more wars is because more men have been leaders historically.

http://theleadingedgeblog.com/its-official-men-are-to-blame/


Obviously the part you quoted is completely sickening. But I have hope for the guy.

VD said...

Is there a cure for gamma?

Consistent and unrelenting female rejection. The problem is there is just enough women who settle or get worn down by them - usually a combination of both - to allow them to perpetrate their self-delusions.

Anonymous said...

This guy is hoping that he finds a nice girl to do things to him as a passive participant in perpetual awe of how she adds an "a" to definite, sometimes forgets to wash her hands, is petty and backbiting with her friends, and tends to talk too loudly always as if she's the center of attention for the universe, right? He wants to be the woman.

What's with the door opening? I started adopting a three-step-or-less rule, and life makes so much more sense. I see these people who open doors at 10, 20 paces and just think it's a passive aggressive thing - or at least an imposition - look how great I am, opening the door for you, now, hurry up to thank me. Women will never open doors for anyone, unless somebody specifically points out - slamming the door on the elderly couple wasn't very cute for somebody who claims to be able to do everything a man can do, only better, including being rude.

You know, I had to deal with a "female problem" this morning, where a customer mid-level contact (woman) was just unwilling to accept my person's (woman) statements, and it was escalating. This had actually started the day before, and I had calls and texts all night of drafts emails and how she was going to "prove" who was right, and, when the day started with the same cyclone of having to see who was going to be queen bee, I had to put things in perspective and stop it from our side. It's been a much calmer day, and things are resolved, with the customer finally saying - they had just misunderstood and misread everything, apparently sticking a "not" in front of everything we had sent, and, now, all is good. I wonder if this is the feminine genius he speaks of - you know, the necessity to create a conflict and drama out of whole cloth?

Royal Tenenbaum said...

This is my favorite quote:

"Ladies, not only do you have every right to expect such respect and selflessness from the men who encounter your presence, but you should be extremely worried by any person lobbying for a world where men walk past women with a blind ignorance to your female greatness."

1. He addresses ladies in this paragraph, but he speaks of "women" in the others. Lest we forget, all ladies are women, but not all women are ladies. Ladylike behavior was a qualifier for chivalry: the man/knight was to respect the honor of the woman. No respect is given if the woman have no honor. But this guy takes it way past that and demands chivalry of all women, regardless of who they are. It's a perversion of the chivalry he claims to practice. Dude needs a history lesson.

2. Where'd this assumption of "female greatness" come from? It isn't biblical.

3. If there was any wonder why American women think they deserve the world, it's because of guys like this telling them that they deserve respect and sacrifice merely because they're women.

4. This sounds like the "nice guy's" ode to the girls whose "asshole" boyfriends don't open doors. They might agree with him, but they'll continue to give it up to the guys who won't open doors and treat them like queens.


Anonymous said...

but nowhere is leadership mentioned.

'Cause women are better leaders, or some such. It's odd that these men think they are leading by wanting women to lead. It's a skin crawling dynamic.

~Stingray

Anonymous said...

I open doors for women because I know they deserve my profound adoration and selfless love.

So just the mere possession of a vagina makes a person deserving of all that, huh? Or does it depend on the chromosomes? I wonder how he sees trannies: does a post-op male-to-female transexual (or whatever that's called these days) deserve "profound adoration and selfless love"? If so, at what point does that deserving begin? When the breasts are bolted on and the guy starts dressing in drag, or does it wait until he gets Big Jim and the twins hacked off? Now that proper respect for trannies is taking the place of gay marriage in the limelight, these are things we need to know.

It's weird: some people tell us that there's really no difference between women and men; gender is just a social construct. Others tell us that women are angelic creatures that deserve special treatment. And often these two groups are the same people. I guess it's like in Animal Farm: men and women are equal, but women are more equal than men.

Yohami said...

That was pure comedy!

Anonymous said...

Is there a cure for gamma?

Consistent and unrelenting female rejection. The problem is there is just enough women who settle or get worn down by them - usually a combination of both - to allow them to perpetrate their self-delusions.


Yep. I was never as bad as this guy, thank God. But I was pretty bad, and yet I got dates often enough to think I was doing the right thing with the pedestalizing and the nice-guy treatment and just needed to keep it up. Had I been shot down more consistently, maybe I would have gone looking for the truth sooner.

That's why the other thing that's needed is men teaching each other, or teaching boys, the facts of life on this stuff. But that has to be done either when the guy's not chasing anyone at all (preferably before he starts) or right after he's been burned. If he already has one or more on the pedestal, he probably won't listen.

Harold Carper said...

Is there a cure for gamma?

Consistent and unrelenting female rejection.


You know what did it for me? Consistent female rejection when I was nice followed by consistent female fawning when I rejected them.

Harold Carper said...

This weekend my wife and I visited one of her childhood friends and the topic of women refusing to make sandwiches came up. (Not literally. You know what I mean.) I said, "You know how you deal with that?" Then I grabbed my wife, threw her over my knees, and spanked her right in front of her friend and her friend's husband. Not hard but enough to make it sting a bit. Jaws dropped, everyone laughed, and I had a suitable reward waiting for me at bedtime that night.

Harold Carper said...

I open doors for women because I know they deserve my profound adoration and selfless love.

FIFY: "I open doors for women because I know I deserve their profound adoration and selfless love."

Anonymous said...

Without the complimentary and amazing feminine genius I can never be a real man.

Putting the p***y on a pedestal - keeping gammas in their place since 1912.

MacLaren said...

I'm glad you posted this. The man is unbelievable.

MacLaren said...

Here's another Churchian screed that made me want to cut myself:

http://scottbrownonline.com/a-wife-as-an-influencer-of-her-husband/

MacLaren said...

BTW, reading Brendon's screed made me have to watch the blonde chick get punched through the glass again.

Anonymous said...

rycamor said: "Looking at the blog, what's sad is that this guy is apparently a Christian, and has a whole section on Manhood. Look at his Four vital lessons that we need to teach young men. Nothing wrong with those lessons (although there are a few passive-aggressive asides in there), but nowhere is leadership mentioned. Not once."

I leadership or headship the Biblical principle we should be teaching?

Leadership is conditional on another person being willing to follow your lead.

Headship is based on authority and is not conditional.

Jesus is the head of the church, because he has authority over the church; a husband is the head of his wife, because he has authority over his wife.

I'm starting to think we should drop the word leadership from the Christian vocabulary, because of its conditional nature. Wives are told they should only follow their husbands if they are good leaders (in other words, the husband's leadership over the wife is conditional on the wife's approval of his leadership).

And now this leadership idea has been extended to Jesus. "Jesus wouldn't want me to stay in a marriage where I wasn't haaaaaaappy" really means she will only follow the Biblical commands she agrees with; leadership conditional on her approval.

Jesus' authority is absolute and his commands are not conditional on our approval.

Bob said...

Check this out: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-24900650

English government considering giving women £200 to go shopping with...for breast feeding.

Don't get me wrong, breastfeeding is great but as someone else put it "Shall we pay them for breathing too?".
All coming at the taxpayer's (primarily male's) funds of course.

Eric Wilson said...

If I ever said anything close to this my father would ask me if I'm retarded.

I'll admit it, I laughed out loud. I think calling someone a retard is funny again.

CostelloM said...

" I am a real man who has not had his masculine awareness dulled by erroneous ideologies about gender, or seriously messed up by pornography-fueled predatory attitudes towards women."

Translation: "I can't get laid so I put gash on a pedestal."

Harold Carper said...

I leadership or headship the Biblical principle we should be teaching?

Both. Headship is the principal. Leadership is the practice. We also need to teach submission.

mmaier2112 said...

"I'll admit it, I laughed out loud. I think calling someone a retard is funny again. "

Did I miss a memo?

When was it ever NOT funny?

Eric Wilson said...

When was it ever NOT funny?

I have a friend who has a retarded brother. So I stopped using it for a bit but yeah I guess it's still always been funny.

Krul said...

A haiku:

Man without a Domme;
He is a rogue samurai.
My soul says, "Wave, man!"

From the NZ article:
The study found that many women embraced benevolent sexism. Those women were also more likely to be psychologically “entitled” – a symptom of a narcissistic personality where people feel they are deserving or more special than others

In other words, they're normal women. Gotcha.

Anonymous said...

Consistent and unrelenting female rejection.

Well, I'm not sure if it cures them, but you definitely have a point - a little bit of female attention does seem to send a gamma into high dudgeon mode. It's like feeding gremlins after midnight.

Anonymous said...

Axiom: A man who asserts that is a Real Man is not in fact a real man.

LP2021 Bank of LP Work in Progress said...

Malone's feelings on women are his own but they are unappealing and nearly revolting.

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Anonymous said...

uhhh that wave man thing sounds pretty cool. think ill go with that

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